Sunday, February 3, 2013

5/52 {a weekly family portrait}

{a portrait of my family, once a week, every week, in 2013}

I guess you just never know what a week will hold.
On Monday my only brother passed away. We left at 1am the next morning to come home.
It was a hard and exhausting, but such a precious week spent with my parents and my two sisters' families.
Life always going to be fun and games and I think it's important to record our hard moments as a family, too.
Like this moment - right before my brother's funeral - brimming with grief, nausea and dread, and awkwardly unsure if it's really appropriate to smile-for-the-camera, or not.
This portrait will be a reminder that our family can do hard.
I am so honoured to do life with these people by my side.

xo

24 comments:

  1. An offering of prayer for you and your family, Dee. This is precious way of looking at life and especially family life. ((hugs))

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  2. i'm so very sorry dee. i remember meeting you, jada and your mum a few years ago and my heart goes out to you all. xx

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  3. So sorry to read of your loss. Please know that my thoughts are with you and your family.
    Hugs from Utah, USA

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  4. I don't think I've left a comment here before, just watched quietly from the sidelines. My thoughts are with you and I am so encouraged by your grace in hard times. Lisa x

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  5. thinking of you in the mire of grief xxxx

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  6. to do hard with grace and love....that is a precious thing. much love to you.
    Allison x

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  7. You never do know. I try and remind myself to really appreciate people and life as it unrolls...you never do know. I am so sorry to hear of the loss of your brother. You look beautiful in the rawness of that moment captured by this photo. x

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  8. i just love you Dee, am so very sorry ROss has gone for now - so glad he will be looked after and having the most amazing of lives right now; so glad is loved so much by you all...what a special special fella.
    xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx....and a cup of tea too

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  9. I'm so sorry to read that...hugs to you and your gorgeous family x

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  10. Hugs to you and your loved ones Dee.
    Arohantinonui x

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  11. I am so sorry for your loss. I love your attitude about handling the hard with those you love by your side. In difficult times, that is probably the best you can ask for.
    So sorry.

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  12. So sorry to read of your sad loss....this photo will be a reminder of so many things captured in this moment of time. xxx

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  13. What a beautiful family and moment in time. It will help you remember your perserverence during this hard time.

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  14. You are so right, it is important to remember the hard times as well as the easy. You guys sure do hard well, and with style too. Very proud to call you a friend. Love xx

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  15. Oh, Dee, I'm praying for you and your family. So hard. So heart exhausting. But your family looks beautiful and strong here. Love your words.

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  16. I am sorry for your loss.
    I admire your grace.
    With or without a smile on your face,
    I wish you peace in your heart.

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  17. I was very sad to hear your family's news. Wishing you all strength and thinking of you all. xx

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  18. There are no words that can take away your pain, but know that there are many many thoughts and prayers going your way.

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  19. Great blog here & I look forward to visiting again!
    Tye
    http://www.lagelledailydose.blogspot.com

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  20. God bless you Dee xoxoxoxo Jennie Bradford x

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  21. So sorry for the loss of your dear brother Dee. Your tribute was beautifully written. Sending hugs xo

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  22. Hello from the States,
    My mother died 11 years ago when I was 17 and there were many pictures taken. The whole day was so disturbing and traumatic for me and I never understood the purpose of taking pictures at such a sad time; it seemed so cruel. Thank you for helping me find purpose. "Strength" was the feeling that I had when looking at the photos taken that day, I just didn't know it. Thank you so very much for helping me realize that. I'm sorry for your loss and I hope your sadness eases quickly.

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  23. I'm very sorry for your loss. xoxo

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